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Hello, dear readers of Anchored Tides Recovery! There’s a common misconception that fun can’t be had without the inclusion of alcohol or other substances. But in reality, there’s a world of enjoyment to be found in sober activities. Let’s dive into some creative and memorable ways to have a blast on those sober nights out with friends.

The Allure of Sober Nights

If you’re on a journey of recovery or simply choosing to abstain from alcohol, you might be wondering, how do I fill my nights with fun and connection? The truth is, sober nights can be even more rewarding than those blurred by alcohol. They allow for:

  • Genuine Connections: Without the haze of alcohol and other substances, conversations tend to be more meaningful.
  • Clear Memories: Remember every hilarious joke and heartfelt moment.
  • No Hangovers: Wake up feeling refreshed and proud of your choices.

Ideas for Sober Night Fun

If you’re looking for inspiration, here are some fantastic, alcohol-free activities to consider:

  1. Game Night: Bring out the board games, card games, or even video games. Nothing beats the fun of a friendly competition.
  2. Theme Parties: Choose a theme (80s, masquerade, or pajama party) and dress up accordingly.
  3. Outdoor Adventures: From night hikes to beach bonfires, nature offers an array of sober fun.
  4. Cooking or Baking Nights: Whip up some delicious treats or meals together.
  5. Karaoke: Belt out your favorite tunes with friends – no alcohol is needed for this kind of fun!
  6. Arts & Crafts Night: Dive into DIY projects or paint a collective mural.
  7. Movie Marathons: Pick a series or genre and binge-watch together.

The Power of Designation

One concept worth noting in our exploration of sober nights is the designation. When you hear the term “designated driver,” it’s usually someone who abstains from drinking to drive others home safely. But in our context, we can broaden the term: be a Designated Fun Planner. This person is in charge of ensuring that the group has a variety of entertaining, sober activities lined up. By rotating this role among friends, everyone gets a turn to introduce the group to new experiences.

Crafting a New Narrative

Our society often equates fun with alcohol consumption. However, sober nights with friends offer a chance to redefine what fun truly means. At Anchored Tides Recovery, we believe in celebrating life in its purest form. Here’s a challenge for you: the next time you’re planning an evening with friends, consider an alcohol-free agenda. Discover the joy, laughter, and connection that await in these unforgettable nights.

Embrace the journey of sobriety, and remember, there’s a whole community here cheering for you!

FAQ’s

1. Can sober activities be as fun as non-sober ones?

Absolutely! Sober activities provide an opportunity for genuine connections, meaningful conversations, and a host of unique, creative ways to enjoy yourself without the influence of alcohol or substances. Plus, you’ll remember all the great times you’ve had.

2. What are some popular sober activities?

There are a plethora of options, including:

  1. Game Nights
  2. Theme Parties
  3. Outdoor Adventures like hiking or beach bonfires
  4. Cooking or Baking Nights
  5. Karaoke
  6. Arts and Crafts
  7. Movie Marathons
3. What is a Designated Fun Planner?

A Designated Fun Planner is someone in the group who takes on the responsibility of planning and coordinating a variety of sober activities for an outing. This person ensures that everyone has a great time while staying true to the aim of a sober night. By rotating this role among friends, everyone gets a chance to contribute to the fun.

4. How do I deal with social pressure to drink?

It can be difficult, especially in a society where social activities often involve alcohol. Be honest about your choice to remain sober. You can also consider having a non-alcoholic drink in hand to deflect attention. Surrounding yourself with supportive friends can make a world of difference.

5. Do I have to disclose that I’m sober or in recovery?

You’re under no obligation to disclose your sobriety or recovery journey unless you’re comfortable doing so. You can simply suggest fun activities that don’t require alcohol. Most people will be more interested in the fun to be had than in whether or not alcohol is involved.

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Stephanie Behrens is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, who earned her Masters in Clinical Psychology at Pepperdine University. She received her Bachelor’s degree in Psychology from the University of California, Santa Barbara. Stephanie has been working in the treatment industry since 2014 and joined the Anchored Tides Recovery team as Clinical Director and Clinical Supervisor in 2024. She also enjoys working as a therapist and specializes in substance abuse, complex trauma, co-dependency, and anxiety/depressive disorders. Stephanie also has an interest in animal-assisted psychotherapy where she and her dog are certified as an official therapy dog team. When she is not working, she enjoys spending time with family and friends and her Golden Retriever.

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Being the first point of contact for women seeking aftercare for their recovery in alcohol and drug addiction; I am driven & passionate about helping them with their next steps. I have always been passionate about helping others & this position allows me to see those dreams come to life.

You can always find me in nature during my self care time, usually hiking, roller skating by the beach, or surfing the waves. I enjoy music to feed my soul & get grounded. I lead a healthy & holistic way of living that I enjoy sharing with others.

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Michelle has been a part of the Anchored Tides family since 2018. Michelle is an empathetic individual who finds connection with each client. Her goal is to help women feel understood and see that long-term recovery is possible. Michelle obtained a bachelor’s degree in sociology from Brandman University and is working towards her masters in social work. Michelle is passionate about helping others and considers it an honor to be a part of a treatment team who believes the client’s care is the first priority. In her spare time Michelle loves going to concerts, camping, and road trips.

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Clinical Therapist

I am Katie van Heerden, a licensed marriage and family therapist, currently conducting individual and group therapy at ATR using CBT and EMDR modalities. My passion for working with those struggling with addiction and mental health is a personal one. I, myself, grew up in a family system of addiction and mental health issues with little knowledge of what to do or how to recover. This drove me to further my education in mental health disorders, first by obtaining my BA in psychology from Cal State University Fullerton, then my Master’s Degree in Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University. While the knowledge I have obtained in school is extensive, my personal journey through life and all of its struggles have led me to the conclusion that anyone can recover if given 2 things: resources and support. When asked what keeps me going in this field, after 10+ years, I typically respond; “I am merely a farmer. I plant the seeds, nourish when necessary, and give space to allow growth.” Watching clients transform into better versions of themselves is not only rewarding but inspiring. It is a “job” I never take for granted.

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Tracy Dunn is a National Interventionist and Addiction Coach who has received training at the Crossroads Recovery Coaching Academy of Seattle Washington and The Addiction Academy in Miami Florida. As the daughter of Roger Dunn of the Roger Dunn Golf Stores, Tracy knows all too well the dramatic impact that fame and addiction can have on the family system. Her professional training partnered with over 32 years of sobriety has led Tracy to be deeply committed to both saving and changing the lives of those struggling with addiction and alcoholism and their families.

As a group facilitator, she works collaboratively with her clients to help them focus on the action they will need to take to recognize the vision they will have for themselves. As an interventionist, she has helped many families to overcome the paralyzing grip of addiction by teaching accountability, compassion, and the other tools needed to break the cycle of addiction and maintain sobriety. Tracy works with the media, treatment facilities, interventionists, therapists, and addiction psychiatrists and consults with treatment facilities. Her dedication to saving lives has given a dynamic voice of recovery to those who had previously given up hope, and the belief that they are able to create their own successes.

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William Nephew has been a singer/songwriter for over 20 years. He achieved some notable success early in his career with emo/rock band Jack’s Broken Heart, which won a San Diego Music Award in 2001, toured the continental United States, and shared the stage with acts like The Mars Volta and Jimmy Eat World. Having a strong passion for the arts, William earned a B.A in Cinema production. Following completion of his degree at San Francisco State University, William worked on film/tv projects for major Hollywood production companies including Sony and Universal Pictures.

Williams addiction began at an early age and followed a slow and steady progression. Eventually, William knew he had to make a change. With the help of drug and alcohol treatment, William got sober on May 26th, 2014. He has been sober ever since. William’s talent as a singer/songwriter, passion for the healing power of music, and the struggles of his past make him an outstanding program administrator for Rock to Recovery. He believes in the strength of creative expression as an extremely effective tool to cope with overwhelming emotions in early sobriety because William was actually in Rock to Recovery groups as a CLIENT before he became a program facilitator. William is also a certified CADC-I drug and alcohol counselor by the state of California.

Amy Dutton

COO / Co-Founder

Amy moved to California from Florida in 2011 to begin her journey into a life of recovery. Amy started to gain her spirit back while helping others and that’s when she found her life’s purpose. Amy graduated with a bachelor’s degree in psychology and a minor in sociology from Chapman university. Amy has also completed her CAADAC degree at Centaur university. Amy truly believes being outside and in touch with nature helps with self-destructive behaviors, which she considers to be the key to her personal recovery. After years of owning and operating a successful women’s sober living, Amy really saw the need for gender-specific aftercare. Amy Dutton and Becca Edge teamed up to create Anchored Tides Recovery.

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Director of Marketing & Admissions

Kelli Easley comes to Anchored Tides bringing with her over seventeen years of experience in the field of addiction. Her unwavering passion to help others stems from her commitment to give back after overcoming her own 17-year addiction. She holds certifications in both Chemical Dependency and Family Development.Kelli had the good fortune of training under a well-respected interventionist, and therapists this has only strengthened her expertise in working with both individuals and families. Kelli is
currently working towards a degree in Business Administration along with being a loving mother to her husband, and two sons. In her free time, Kelli is active in the recovery community and lends her support to nonprofit organizations to help those in underserved communities.

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Murphy’s favorite treatment activities are Lunch, Reiki, Process group, and sitting in on individual sessions. Bunny’s favorite activities are Lunch, DBT, and also sitting in on individual sessions. When they aren’t working, Murphy likes to play with her little brother (who is not a support animal), go on hikes, dig holes, sleep and eat. During Bunny’s time off, he likes to destroy squeaky toys, play with his nerf dog gun, and sleep.

They (and we) believe that animals are essential in providing emotional support. Studies have shown that some of the benefits of having an ESA include enhancing calm and relaxation, alleviating loneliness, enhancing social engagement and interaction, normalizing heart rate and blood pressure, and reducing stress, pain, anxiety, and depression. They are an important part of the holistic approach at ATR to make everyone feel loved and comfortable as they walk through their recovery journey.

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Hillary, an Orange County local, has been working in the field of addiction for over a
decade and has been in recovery herself for over 13 years. Coming from a broken place with nowhere to go but up, Hillary can relate to clients on a deeper level with compassion and understanding. Her favorite thing about working in recovery is watching individuals come into their own and find the inner peace they once had but lost along the way. Hillary is currently an undergrad at the University of Phoenix with a BS in Business and working on a master’s degree in healthcare administration. Hillary not only enjoys being part of the Anchored Tides family, but showing up as a wife, daughter, sister, aunt, and friend to those around her. Hillary thanks the program of recovery every day for the life she has and strives to be an example for women everywhere.

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Alisa brings a high level of dedication and compassion to her work as an addiction counselor and group facilitator. A certified addiction treatment counselor (CADC-II), Alisa has nine years of experience working in the substance abuse field. Alisa has apassion for both helping others in recovery and guiding women through the process of rebuilding a valued life and increasing their self-worth. She embraces her strengths of empathy and patience to help others develop upon their inherent set of skills and seek a purpose based on their own abilities. Alisa is DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy)
informed and brings her expertise to the therapeutic setting. Currently, Alisa is working towards a bachelor’s degree in psychology at California State University Fullerton, with the hopes of becoming a social worker. When not at work or school, Alisa enjoys fitness, watching the Boston Red Sox, salsa dancing, and spending time with family and friends.

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Stephanie Behrens

Clinical Director & Clinical Outreach - LMFT, LPCC

Stephanie Behrens is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, who earned her Masters in Clinical Psychology at Pepperdine University. She received her Bachelor’s degree in Psychology from the University of California, Santa Barbara. Stephanie has been working in the treatment industry since 2014 and joined the Anchored Tides Recovery team as Clinical Director and Clinical Supervisor in 2024. She also enjoys working as a therapist and specializes in substance abuse, complex trauma, co-dependency, and anxiety/depressive disorders. Stephanie also has an interest in animal-assisted psychotherapy where she and her dog are certified as an official therapy dog team. When she is not working, she enjoys spending time with family and friends and her Golden Retriever.

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Sierra Flynn

Primary Therapist - AMFT, CATC3

Hello, My name is Sierra Flynn. I am an associate marriage and family therapist and an addiction treatment counselor. I completed my undergraduate studies at California State University, Fullerton where I emphasized substance use and mental health. I then proceeded to receive my master’s degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Alliant International University, and I am currently pursuing a Doctoral Degree in Marriage and Family Therapy at Alliant. I strongly believe in reducing stigma as it relates to addiction; therefore, I have dedicated my career and life’s work to working on the front lines with this population. I was given a second chance in life, and I believe everyone deserves the opportunity to succeed and reach their best self. The modalities I treat clients with are theories I have found to be effective in my own therapeutic work. I am trained in EMDR, and I specialize in the treatment of complex trauma and addiction.
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Becca White

Primary Therapist - AMFT

My name is Becca White, an Associate Marriage, and Family Therapist. I have a bachelor’s degree in Sociology with a Minor in Addictions Counseling as well as a master’s degree in counseling with an emphasis in Marriage and Family Therapy from
California State University, Fullerton. My passion to treat women with severe substance abuse issues as well as co-occurring mental disorders is a personal one. Through my own experience with addiction, I have adapted skills which add depth to understanding clients and providing them with unconditional positive regard and compassion. I believe my recovery and personal journey has become one of my greatest assets. I offer unique insight into mental health and addiction.

Currently, I utilize an array of intentional strategies to develop a positive working relationship with individuals and their families. I provide both individual and group therapy, such as psychoeducation to provide insight into the disease of addiction as well as promoting long-term sobriety. 

As a therapist at Anchored Tides Recovery, I can fulfill my purpose in life, which is to help others navigate through their own perils. It is an honor to give back and help women learn the skills to become self-confident and overcome adversity.

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Markie Maneval

Operations Manager - RADT-1

Like many who have struggled with addiction, Markie’s journey to sobriety was no straightforward path. As a Tulane University student and intern for the NASA Stennis Space Center, she was on her way to a successful life! Personal struggles and watching her brother also struggle and lose his battle with drugs and alcohol only drove her deeper into addiction. Her drug and alcohol abuse continued to grow out of control until she finally realized it was time to surrender and get help. She was tired of living on the streets. She was tired of hurting her loved ones. She was tired of how much she hated herself.

She now has over five years of sobriety and is a strong believer in the ability to transform the future by making positive and healthy changes. Today, Markie has over five years of sobriety and has worked in the drug and alcohol treatment industry for over 4 years. She is a strong believer in the ability to transform the future by making positive and healthy changes. She is passionate about the work and the impact she makes on her community. Markie recently joined the Anchored Tides Recovery Team and is excited to help women begin their journey into sobriety!

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Julia Perez- Monje

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Hello, my name is Julia Perez-Monje, I am a 500 level RYT Certified Yoga Instructor, Reiki Practitioner, and Sound Healer. I first discovered yoga during my own recovery journey. I found spirituality and began to understand my true purpose in life – sharing this beautiful practice with others. I have a bachelor’s degree in psychology with a minor in human communications, and I love being able to expand on wellness with a holistic approach to healing. During yoga groups, I incorporate breathworks, aromatherapy, meditation, reiki, and sound healing. Groups are focused on deep relaxation, gentle stretching, releasing blockages, balancing chakras, staying present, and tuning into
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Andrew Mouck

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My name is Andy Mouck, and I am a dedicated group facilitator at Anchored Tides Recovery. Having personally overcome addiction and completed treatment in 2017, I am deeply passionate about helping individuals on their recovery journey. I bring a
compassionate and empathetic approach to my role, creating a safe space for participants to heal and grow. Alongside my work as a group facilitator, I am a National Academy of Sports Medicine Certified Personal Trainer, sharing my love for fitness and wellness as an integral part of recovery. With a bachelor’s degree in economics from California State University, Long Beach, and ongoing studies in a post-baccalaureate health program at California State University, Fullerton, I bring a comprehensive understanding of addiction and the importance of holistic care. As a registered drug and alcohol technician, I am committed to providing the highest quality care and staying informed about the latest advancements in addiction treatment. I am honored to be part of the Anchored Tides Recovery team, empowering individuals to embrace sobriety, rebuild their lives, and create a future filled with hope and purpose.

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Brandon Thompson

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Dr. Sanchez

Medical Director

Venice Sanchez, MD, is a board-certified psychiatrist and addiction medicine specialist. At her practice in Newport Beach, California, Dr. Sanchez takes a holistic approach to care that emphasizes not only medication management and traditional medicine, but also the incorporation of therapy, spirituality, healthy eating and exercise, and social factors. She is a diplomate of the American Board of Psychiatry and Neurology and Addiction Medicine.

Dr. Sanchez received her bachelor’s degree from the University of California, Los Angeles, and her medical degree from Michigan State University College of Human Medicine. She continued her training at the University of California, Irvine Psychiatry Residency Program where she was recognized by faculty with the Outstanding Resident of the Year Award as an acknowledgment for her dedicated efforts in education, the clinics, and her work with her patients.

Dr. Sanchez has had extensive training at multiple facilities under the supervision of experts in her field, which allowed her to gain comprehensive knowledge and experience in treating a wide array of psychiatric disorders. Her work at the Long Beach VA, various addiction rehabilitation centers, and San Diego Detention facilities allowed her to gain expertise in Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, substance abuse, and mood and thought disorders underlying substance use.

Dr. Sanchez realizes the significant need in women’s health, especially in treating pregnant and postpartum patients who are struggling with mental illness. She not only trained with a specialist at the Maternal and Fetal clinic at UCI Medical Center, but she was also at the forefront in opening up the first Women’s Mental Health Medication Management Clinic at Long Beach VA Veteran’s Hospital. Her passion for her field allowed her to diligently pursue the much-needed training and experience in treating patients who have a comorbid psychiatric diagnosis. She also specializes in treatment-resistant psychiatric disorders.

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Rebecca Edge

CEO / Co-Founder

Becca Edge is originally from Birmingham, Alabama. She is no stranger to mental health and substance abuse issues in her family, and she herself also struggled with addiction and moved to California to commit herself to treatment. She has been in long-term recovery since 2010. After much success in the corporate world, Rebecca started a sober living home as a “passion project” to provide women with a safe place as they re-enter the world as sober members of society. She noticed that there weren’t many aftercare programs dedicated to women’s sobriety or supporting them with the various co-occurring disorders that pop up once women are free from drugs and alcohol. So in 2016, Rebecca partnered with Amy to create a safe, therapy-focused place where women can heal from their addictions, trauma, and other issues while growing into who they were always meant to be. Becca is passionate about helping women realize their worth and supporting/helping them navigate the next steps of their lives, all while helping them feel secure on their road to long-term recovery.
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