Sober Living for Women in Huntington Beach

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Alcohol is a powerful and addictive drug. Unfortunately, most people think of alcohol as a social tool, but like anything else, if abused it can turn into a serious issue. According to the NIAAA, women are more likely to encounter problems due to their substance abuse, but are less likely to seek professional help. At  Anchored Tides Recovery, we’re dedicated to helping any and all women overcome their addiction, whether it’s with alcohol or a different substance. 

When considering sobriety, it’s helpful to think of the journey as a marathon, not a sprint. For most people, the recovery process includes multiple steps. Some women start their journey at inpatient treatment, and others start an intensive outpatient treatment center.  It’s important during your recovery journey to have a safe, stable environment to live in, such as a sober living home. 

What Are Sober Living Homes for Women?

Sober living homes for women are a safe living environment where everyone who lives there is sober. A sober living home is a great transitional tool for anyone looking to maintain long term sobriety. While sober living homes do not provide addiction treatment therapy, most people living in one attend outpatient addiction treatment programs. 

Aside from a safe environment, sober living homes also provide structure, a crucial component to sobriety. Most sober living homes have a set of rules and guidelines people have to follow. For example, certain sober living homes make attending some type of 12-step support group mandatory. Other homes require its residents to complete a certain set of chores. While it can be extremely beneficial for someone’s sobriety to live in a sober living home, it’s benefits are most effective when coupled with outpatient addiction treatment. At Anchored Tides Recovery, we offer three types of outpatient options for women: partial hospitalization, intensive outpatient, and outpatient. 

Benefits of Sober Living for Women 

  • Overcoming Communication Barriers

According to NIH, the National Institute of Health, verbal communication is vital to making progress in any substance abuse recovery program. When you reside in a sober living home, you’re surrounded by other sober people. You’ll have a chance to speak freely about your addiction to like minded individuals. Engaging in dialogue about sobriety is crucial during recovery. 

  • Focus on Gender-Specific Issues

Addiction impacts women differently than their male counterparts. Women also have different life experiences than men, such as pregnancy and motherhood in recovery. By living in a sober living home for women, you’ll be surrounded by people who at one time have, or will, experience similar life events as you. 

  • Stability and Accountability

Stability and accountability are often two things that are lacking in an addicts life. It can be difficult to establish a routine while in the throws of an addiction. Because of rules and guidelines, sober living homes for women help all of their residents establish routine. Early sobriety can be a particularly vulnerable time for women, especially when they feel like they’re starting their life over. Having a group of people hold you accountable for your actions (i.e. make sure all the dishes are cleaned after dinner) will not only give you a sense of purpose, but help you create a new sober routine. 

Get Help With Addiction at Anchored Tides Recovery!

At Anchored Tides Recovery, we’re focused on helping all of our clients find sobriety, but more importantly, maintaining sobriety. Our comprehensive addiction treatment programs and aftercare services can set you up for long-term recovery. We currently offer partial hospitalization, intensive outpatient, and outpatient treatment programs, as well as aftercare services such as sober living. Contact us today to see how we can help you or someone you love with addiction! 

How to Confide in Your Partner About Your Addiction

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Thinking about telling your partner you’re struggling with addiction? That’s a brave first step—and you’re not alone. At Anchored Tides Recovery, we know that opening up about addiction can be one of the hardest yet most healing conversations to have. Whether you’re battling alcohol, drugs, or unresolved trauma, sharing the truth with someone you love takes strength—and we’re here to help you prepare.

Why It’s So Hard to Talk About Addiction

Shame. Fear. Uncertainty. Guilt. These emotions often show up when you’re considering confiding in your partner. You might worry about hurting them, damaging the relationship, or being judged. But hiding your struggle can create even more distance.

Addiction is not a moral failing. It’s a health condition—one that affects your brain, emotions, and relationships. And healing often starts with honesty.

Find Time to Discuss Your Addiction With Your Partner

How to Tell Your Partner About Your Addiction (Step-by-Step)

Being honest with your partner doesn’t mean you need all the answers—it just means you’re ready to start moving forward. Here are some steps to guide your conversation:

1. Choose the Right Time & Place

Look for a quiet moment when you’re both calm and not distracted. Avoid high-stress moments or arguments. Aim for a safe, private space.

2. Be Honest and Vulnerable

Use “I” statements to take ownership of your story. For example:
> “I’ve been struggling with addiction, and I want to be honest with you.”

3. Share What You’re Doing to Get Help

Let them know this isn’t just a confession—it’s a turning point. Talk about any treatment you’re considering or steps you’ve taken toward recovery.

4. Be Ready for Their Reaction

Everyone processes heavy news differently. Your partner may feel shocked, confused, hurt, or supportive. Give them space while reassuring them this isn’t about blame—it’s about connection.

5. Invite Them Into the Process (When Ready)

You don’t have to do this alone. Whether it’s therapy, family counseling, or just checking in with each other, healing together is possible.

What If You’ve Relapsed or Hidden the Truth?

Many women carry guilt about relapsing or not telling their partner sooner. But recovery isn’t linear—and you deserve support no matter where you are in the journey. Your honesty today can rebuild trust tomorrow.

If you’re unsure how to open up about a relapse or restart your recovery, our team at Anchored Tides can guide you with compassion and care.

Common Voice-Search Questions (That You Might Be Asking)

  • “How do I tell my partner I have a drug problem?”
  • “What’s the best way to talk to my spouse about addiction?”
  • “How do I admit I relapsed?”
  • “Can my relationship survive my addiction?”

You’re not alone in wondering these things—and the answer is yes, there is a way forward.

Anchored Tides Recovery: Support for Women in Every Stage of Healing

Located in Huntington Beach, CA, Anchored Tides Recovery is a women’s-only outpatient treatment center offering:

  • Partial Hospitalization Programs (PHP) and Intensive Outpatient Programs (IOP)
  • Dual diagnosis treatment for mental health and addiction
  • Trauma-informed care using DBT, CBT, EMDR, and more
  • Family and relationship counseling to repair connection
  • Supportive community where women heal together

Whether you’re preparing for treatment or reentering recovery, our team can help you navigate the tough conversations with empathy and confidence.

Take the First Step—Start the Conversation, Start the Healing

Telling your partner is hard—but you don’t have to do it alone. If you’re ready to open up, begin treatment, or just explore your options, we’re here to support you.

📞 Call us today or visit our website to speak confidentially with a team member.

🌐 Serving women in Huntington Beach, Orange County, and surrounding communities.